PAMELA J. VAUGHN
Administrative
Director
Common Cares Cancer Foundation
Once
the picture of health - running four miles daily, eating healthy
and never getting sick or feeling badly - I was thrown against
the proverbial brick wall by three small, yet life-changing,
words... "You have cancer."
Facing
mortality at age 44 helped me put my life in perspective. Emotionally
strong, educated, and professional, I felt I didn't need help
to get through the cancer ordeal, not realizing yet that my
life had changed forever. However, a mutual friend suggested
I attend a cancer support group. Reluctantly, I agreed. That
event changed my life forever. I discovered an unbreakable bond
with other cancer survivors and was so moved by their stories
that I decided to devote my life to helping cancer patients
live a quality life. I learned that the "bigger issues"
of cancer happen after being diagnosed. It is a necessity to
focus primarily on people needing assistance coping with the
emotional as well as the practical aspects of their condition.
I
understood people with cancer often felt changed by the experience
and are surprised to discover how dramatically they have gained
a new sense of confidence and an ability to assert themselves
through the process. I knew I would give back and also help
others understand the significance of getting involved in efforts
to improve society's understanding of cancer and meet the needs
of people and families coping with diverse circumstances.
The
cancer-survivor movement is the result of many experiences and
emotions. It consists of the efforts by many to educate and
sensitize health professionals, the public, the media, elected
officials, and others about cancer so that they can respond
appropriately.
In
October 2002, I accepted the position of Administrative Director
for Common Cares Cancer Foundation, a non-profit organization
devoted to providing support and services to cancer patients
and their loved ones.
As
odd as it may seem, a cancer diagnosis has changed my life for
the better. I'm more tuned into of my health and relevant issues,
sensitive to helping others, and giving of my time to improve
society's understanding of cancer and the needs of patients
and families coping with the disease.